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Can the real Valentine teach you anything?

Valentines Day – showing kindness is better and cheaper than chocolates and roses.

By John Faisandier, 1 yearFebruary 13, 2024 ago
Conflict

Family business benefits from TUF training

Here’s three tips you can learn to talk with anyone who has a different opinion from you.

By Anesha Ralston, 3 yearsMay 17, 2022 ago
Conflict

What drives aggressive behavior?

Here’s three tips you can learn to talk with anyone who has a different opinion from you.

By Anesha Ralston, 3 yearsApril 12, 2022 ago
Conflict

Staying calm under fire

Do these three things for yourself when confronted by an angry person and there’s one thing that’ll help them calm down in just about every situation.

By John Faisandier, 4 yearsSeptember 22, 2021 ago
De-escalating conflict and aggression
Conflict

TUF de-escalation skills for staff health and safety

“We are getting more and more irate customers. Our staff don’t know how to deal with them.” Here at Thriving Under Fire we are getting more enquiries like this than ever before. For the past 20 years we have specialized in de-escalation training and managing emotions at work. Our pandemic Read more…

By John Faisandier, 4 yearsFebruary 25, 2021 ago
Listening

Good listening is better than taking drugs

We’re all familiar with that warm fuzzy feeling we get when we have a positive connection with someone – but what does it all mean? When a person feels that you notice and accept them, a number of feel good hormones are activated in their brain. These hormones include; Oxytocin Read more…

By tufadmin, 6 yearsFebruary 3, 2019 ago
Conflict

People are people, not assholes.

First posted by John Faisandier on 27th June, 2011 Last week I was given a book to read called “The No Asshole Rule: Building a civilised workplace and surviving one that isn’t” by Robert Sutton. The author, a university professor from Stanford, has used this attention-grabbing title to sell over Read more…

By tufadmin, 6 yearsFebruary 3, 2019 ago
Conflict

Turning towards, against or away

Three actions that help or hinder better relationships.
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By tufadmin, 6 yearsFebruary 3, 2019 ago
Listening

Computers can't do customer service…

smashing laptop Computers just don’t get it!

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By tufadmin, 6 yearsFebruary 3, 2019 ago
Conflict

Two keys for good relationships and customer service.

The two key things that make a successful long-term relationship and help in customer service.
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By tufadmin, 6 yearsFebruary 3, 2019 ago

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