Listening
A vital emotional intelligence skill, at work and at home. Being present.
Management
Tips and skills to help you thrive in a leadership position.
Conflict
De-escalation and dispute resolution. Thriving not shrinking.
Service
Relating well to internal and external customers. How to engage.
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Conflict
Workplace stress – a health and safety issue
Health and safety – law and mental stress.
Laws tell us that we must keep workers safe and healthy at work, this includes avoiding mental stress. Managers can be proactive in reducing workplace stress through a well organised workplace, and by training themselves and their teams to communicate well when emotions are raised.
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Conflict
Angry customers – the unseen hazard
On Monday 1st September 2014 an extremely distressed client walked into the Work and Income office in Ashburton, New Zealand, and shot two of the front line workers.
All the staff at that office were working under stress and the client was even more stressed. None of them had the skills to manage his anger over time until he finally cracked and the results were tragic. While the harm done in this situation was clearly visible and extreme, there are many workplaces where the damage from stress is not so
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Listening
Mental well-being at work – are you flourishing or languishing
Mental Well-being at Work
Are you flourishing or languishing? According to Shaun Robinson, CEO of the Mental Health Foundation New Zealand, these words are a useful way of determining mental health and wellbeing. Previously, good mental health was simply the absence of mental illness. “This is far too restrictive”, Shaun said at a presentation on World Mental Health Day at Work.
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Conflict
Workplace bullying – even the word causes stress
Workplace bullying is destructive. Some people act in a ‘bullying way’ when they are
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Listening
Personal problems at work cause stress
John Kirwan was one of the most devastating wingers that New Zealand and world rugby had ever seen. A prominent and revered figure at the dawn of the professional age of rugby, he seemed to live a charmed life. But he did have personal problems at work.
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Conflict
How one man defused a situation with one very simple skill…
It’s very easy to respond to aggression with aggression… but what if we reacted differently?
Conflict
You don't need to fight! Here's how you can switch your brain from emotional to rational.
A couple
He experiences this question as an attack. He tenses up and goes silent. That’s his usual way of coping when emotions like this arise in him.
Conflict
Acknowledge the emotion
A man walks into … his manager’s office. His face is red, hands shaking and eyes nearly popping out of his head. He is mad about something! “This new directive is just nonsense!” He roars.
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Conflict
How do you say sorry?
There are many moments when you can upset people in the workplace. When someone is hurt or upset they have an emotional reaction. They might pull away from you or they might attack you in some way, even when you didn’t intend to hurt them. (more…) |